Pathways

Our lives symbolize paths.  We are in complete control of our paths.  We decide whether or not we would like flowers or thorns to grow along our path.  We decide which way we'll go at the forks in the road.  The part about our life's path is that we think other people complete the pathway.  The truth is that others have their entrances and exits along our path.  There aren't any permanent walking partners unless God gave them to us at the beginning of our journey (family).  I have spoken to so many women who are looking so hard for someone to walk with them that they no longer walk briskly.  They have stopped walking.  We have to move about our path whether we have walking partners or not.  The path is your life and what you make of it.  If you want others to join your pathway, make your path look like something someone else wants to be a part of.  Enhance your life.  Exercise.  Care for your spirit.  Work out your own issues.  Learn how to have fun and enjoy your own company.  Friends leave.  Family passes on.  Walking partners (intimate relationships) begin and end.  All along the way, you will always have you.  Be good to you... and don't ever be afraid to walk alone.

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Deal? or No Deal?

1. Hot Guy ... but a B.O.? Everytime you see him he smells like shit and wants to know why you are never free to hang out. Do you tell him his body smells like two week old seafood?

2. An ex-boyfriend/girlfriend... that married someone else but wants you back?

3. He/She is extremely attractive, down to earth, spiritual, ambitious, and ... sexual, in fact, so sexual that he/she has three children? Deal/No Deal?

4. Impotence? Sure, its understandable at 60 but what about at 25? Deal/No Deal? You're more into the heart/soul anyway, right?

5. Someone who wears tighty whities?

6. Long distance relationships?

7. He's a plumber. How does his blue collar match your ivy (or black ivy) background?

8. She's/He's a stripper? Are you okay with your bread being bought with "rain" money?

9. Ugly Feet? Do you roll out of bed like Eddie in Boomerang?

10. A virgin?